There’s sex everywhere you look it seems. It’s on every billboard, used by every magazine and TV for advertising and everyone seems to be talking about it all the time. All the time, that is, if YOU’RE not getting any at home.

Is it time you got back into the groove, sexually speaking? Has your get and go gotten up and left? It’s never too late to spice up your life and put some passion and intimacy back in. Stop living in a sexual vacuum and stop it today.

► Be cool. Begging isn’t pretty and rarely if ever works. Try spoiling your partner so they’ll want to have sex with you more often. I’ve always said the sexiest man wears an apron. Maybe if you’re a guy you could wear an apron with nothing on underneath. You could get lucky in the kitchen!

► Be attentive. Are you sure that everything you do with your partner is sexually satisfying to him or her? A friend of mine’s husband always rushes things and sex is often painful for her so she ends up not wanting it very often. Talk about what turns your lover on at non-sexual times. Then don’t forget!

► Be creative. Most every marriage counselor will tell you that a lot of marriages and relationships crap out because of too little or too boring sex. In our busy lives sex can sometimes seem like a mechanical habit and you think it’s all right until you discover that your partner is looking for something better outside your bedroom. Some couples find comfort in consistent or regular sexual experiences but most of us are hoping for a bit more excitement and inspiration in our lovemaking. You can be creative in a number of ways like varying tempos and positions, not confining yourselves to the bed, act out your sexual fantasies with role playing or toys. – I could go on but modesty forbids.

If you have a dud sex life it’s up to YOU to do something about it. No partner at all? Why didn’t you say so earlier? Check out the sexy dating I highly recommend!

How many times do we women ask stupid questions like this? Does it matter? Your ass isn’t going to look smaller unless you’re wearing a loose, free flowing skirt, so why worry about it? We’re all going to wear pants and jeans and shorts because that’s what we feel comfortable in.

Should you ask your husband, partner or boyfriend this question? NO. Firstly because it’s a stupid way to get a compliment on your ass and secondly, if they know what’s good for them, they won’t say yes.

If you’re a BBW and you’re desperately seeking a compliment or some confirmation that your sweetie still thinks you’re wonderful, why not come up with a much more clever way to get what you want. Ask for it.

“Honey, I got this outfit because I thought you’d like it, what do you think?” will work wonders. You have a good chance of getting a compliment on your choice but you also have a chance of finding out what he likes if he doesn’t like this one. It also gives you a chance to let him know that you like dressing in ways that are pleasing to you both.

If you’ve been doing much adult dating, then you are most likely familiar with the symptoms of love. But for those who are new to the feelings, how do you know that you like this person? Well it’s easy! Here are some telltale signs that signal that you are falling hook, line and sinker!

#1. Your heart skips a beat when you see them…or even when you hear their voice.
It’s really normal to hear one’s heartbeat whenever we see someone we really want to be a part of our lives. We can hear the throbbing and thumping of our cardiac muscles! You might feel nervous, anxious and excited at the sight of this person, too. This is the number one sign that you really have the hots for this one!

#2. There are butterflies in your stomach.
Are you familiar with that sometimes annoying, nauseating feeling that you sometimes get when you’re nervous and excited? Well it’s probably those stress butterflies fluttering in your stomach. That weird feeling is just one of the signs that you’re feeling a lusty attraction.

#3. Your hands sweat and shake like crazy.
In normal circumstances, the sweating and shaking of your hands can be synonymous to a medical condition or some sort of caffeine overdose. But for people falling in love, it’s fairly common that the hands sweat and shake. There’s that anxious, nervous but giddy feeling that you just feel throughout your body.

#4. You can’t stop thinking about them.
Not only can’t you stop thinking about them, they’re all you want to talk about. You find a way to fit them into every conversation. They become the number one subject of your subconscious.

Will these feelings last? Only time will tell but enjoy yourself and love being in love. There’s no greater feeling in the world than knowing you’re loved by someone you feel the same way about.

Way too many people allow the size of their bodies to dictate whether they feel comfortable having sex. This is SO wrong. If you’re even a teensy bit guilty of that, let me smack you hard. If you’re sticking to only missionary and doggy for your sexual satisfaction, it’s time you loved that body you walk around in and start getting kinky with it!

Before we get too far, to those people who think larger men and women aren’t sexy, get over yourself. People are sexy whatever their size. You might think really really skinny people are sexy and someone else might think a skinny person isn’t sexy at all. We’re all programmed from birth to desire something different. So if you’re bigger than your best friend, don’t buy into the media hype that size 2 is all that will do.

You CAN have great sex at any size!

Don’t let your size dictate your self worth, your confidence or your sexiness because no matter what size you are, we’re all worried about how our bodies look naked. Now I’m short and round and there’s no way I’d sign up for the TV show, “How To Look Good Naked,” but my man loves my body just the way it is. He likes how it responds when he touches it.

I read about an experiment done by Marie Claire magazine, where they took a picture of a size 14 model and had two mobile billboards made. One with the caption: “I think I’m sexy. Do you?” and the other: “I think I’m fat. Do you?” The result? That almost the same amount of people agreed with the statement that they were looking at. The results tend to confirm that people see you very much the way that you see yourself. If you believe that you are sexy, so will others.

So when my husband says I’m sexy, he’s not talking about the large boobs, although I suppose that doesn’t hurt, and he’s not talking about my laugh, or smile I don’t think. I think my state of mind comes through. I feel sexy, therefore he sees me as sexy. Now I know some of you will think, “holy cow.. she’s 61 and she thinks she’s sexy???” It’s true. You can be sexy at any size and at any age! Your perception of yourself is what counts.

On SexyAds there is a huge group of men who love dating BBW ’s and having sex with big beautiful women. There’s a huge group of women who like having sex with BHM ’s big handsome men. It’s not just small to average size people who can have great sex!

If you have a poor body image because of your size, I suggest that you stand in front of the mirror naked for about 30 minutes or until you can tell that person in the mirror that he or she is sexy. Love yourself because this isn’t a trial run. You don’t get to live your life and then do it again. Be sexy now. Try all those positions you’ve wondered about. Test out those new toys. Get it on!