I received some topic suggestions from someone and this one caught my attention. People can enjoy sex in any of the 24 hours in a day but is there a time that YOU prefer to enjoy sex more than others? I talked about this with some friends at a webmaster’s conference a while back and it was really apparent that women with no children at home liked morning sex. Women with young children need to get up early, fix breakfast, pack lunches, make sure the children are off to school and then get themselves ready for work. One woman said, “If I had morning sex on a regular basis, I’d get fired for being late and the children would be in permanent detention for tardiness.”

It will be interesting to see if there are times of the day you feel sexier than others. Myself, I’m a morning person and luckily I’m married to someone who likes morning sex. Okay, he likes noon sex and afternoon sex and before dinner sex and after dinner sex but morning sex is never a quickie. Because we work for ourselves and at home, there’s usually no rush. How about you? If you could choose (and you can) what time of day would best suit you for sex?

We often read ads that say, “Pleasuring my partner is much more important to me.” Every time I read that I think, “You’re doing it wrong.” My ex used to say things like that to me and it always put a lot of pressure on me to make it worth his while since he was spending all that time just to please me.

I think it’s much better for everyone to be a little selfish with sex. When you can see your lover really enjoying him or herself, isn’t that a much bigger turnon than feeling your partner is sacrificing his or her own pleasure just for you?

Every once in a while I think it would be fun to have a slut day where your lover will do anything you ask. It’s sexy and it’s something you can plan ahead for and when the day arrives you’ve got so many ideas you can’t wait to get started. Always being on the receiving end was never very good for me. Physically it was okay but mentally I felt stressed.

Are you one of the people who pay much more attention to your partner than yourself? Stop it. Sex should be great for both of you and a big part of that is seeing the pleasure and excitement your partner is enjoying.