Born to be a whore?
It’s the old nature or nurture question I suppose, but how does a woman get to the point where she and others consider her a whore? Mind you, I’m not saying that a whore is a bad thing at all. I make no judgments of others, but it’s a curious question to me.
Several years ago I met a call girl (that’s what she called herself) through a friend. My friend and I were having a drink at a local club and this woman joined us for a short time and was very candid about what she did for a living. She’d grown up in a middle class environment and finished high school and had done some college courses.
When I asked how she got started and was it a difficult decision the first time. She said she thought about it for maybe 20 minutes and came to the conclusion that if she was careful with her health she could earn more money lying on her back for 2 hours a day than 4 of her friends combined were earning in their regular jobs.
So then I asked if it was all about the money? What about the sex? She said she could never have done it even the first time if she hadn’t really felt that sex was way more recreational than it was procreational. I decided to ask a few more personal questions because, face it, I was dying to know.
Did she have any sexual activity that she would not engage in? It turns out that yes, there were several things that she didn’t enjoy and wouldn’t participate in. She didn’t like group sex, she didn’t like sex with another woman and she wouldn’t do anal sex. I was a bit surprised by this because I thought a whore would do anything just to reach that sexual high, regardless whether there was money involved or not.
She had to leave for a scheduled appointment or I’d have kept asking questions all evening long. It left me always wondering if she’d been born to be a whore or economic circumstances put her in a position where sex was the best job she could get.
hubby almost married a whore before he met me…although he was convienced she was not..she was in fact, a whore..my feeling is, it’s just a job for them, and some are lazy and can’t imagine working for a living..I worked in social service work and also found women had very low self esteem and many prefered women to men so it was just a job…something we would never consider but there are strange things out there.
born to or born smart enough to.. ah now that’s the question.
Im a whore, a happy one. Id thought about it on occasion over the years and time became right to give it a go. Yes I was broke but thats usual for me. Money isnt my priority, not then and not now. Has been nearly 3 years now and the most fun Ive ever had. Born to be? I was born to be many things, of which I am, and yes, perhaps a whore is one of them.