Is 5 times a day too much? Well, I can only speak for myself. For me, it would be. I used to masturbate a lot more when I was younger, several times a day. But now, maybe a couple times a week, more just before my period for some reason

And I agree: on the flip side, too much of a good thing can have a negative effect on you and your partner. But with any addiction, it can be overcome in a loving relationship.

We need more talk not just about the pleasures, but the downside, the realism of this, so thank you for opening it up.

take care…

I jack it at least 2x a day, and I get sexed up 3x a week. Some of us just want to spread the seed…

Oh yeah, and if you’re trying to climax asap, you have a philosphical problem. Sort out your shit.
It’s the journey, not the destination.

I love masturbation. I mean, who doesn’t?
It a mechanical-bio-physical-process that all humans have to use as a secondary support in case we don’t obtain partners with which to procreate.

There are many who are either sexually obsessed or just passing time, or using it as a means of relief to forget the reality of their social agenda.

But then, at the end of the day, there is only one true purpose of masturbating, and that is the pleasure of release…
Nothing in terms of drugs or physical acts (apart from love making) can create a similar state of mind and body…
Speaking as a guy, at the point of climax you feel listless, lethargic, and tired… but the sensation is such that for guys, it can alleviate violent tendancies, you have a calmer attitude, your mind is relaxed, you feel at peace, you no longer have that burning incessant desire to focus on the female form.
I suppose there are many benefits, but there is a downside. A very dangerous one.
Many of todays average ‘Joe’ 13-25yr olds is sat at home masturbating furiously whilst at school/college/work the girls are all chasing after the popular guys. They get left to chase after women who are not suitable. Ultimately resulting in bad relationships.

Maybe.

You see then there are those who just use it as a morning glory aid, a coffee break ‘self solution’, that after dinner ‘whack’. Perhaps the ‘low five’ to help you go to sleep.
Whatever the reason, there are many purposes to the wank.
You need it to release the build up of tension.

Is there a dark side to masturbating?
Again maybe. Some people end up on a ramp to fulfill their inner darker desires. Gradually being piqued only by things that are unnatural.
Paedofilia/bestiality etc.
This in turn affects social behaviour
It affects the males ability to approach women and start a normal discourse (as opposed to thinking constantly about intercourse)i.e. conversation, being able to handle a rejection.

But then maybe these guys or gals are the ones that have been rejected, and are now at home, getting fat from over eating and all they have in terms of a relationship is the image of some perfect figure angel face taking a massive cock…. pardon the expression but i’m sure all the guys will understand my perspective.

You know, the real funny thing is, the internet puts you more in contact with the opposite sex, but we still as humans look for the easy way in all things. And in the case of relationship maintainence, well a girl/boyfriend costs money, i suppose all you need do is to give your hands a wash and scrub everynow and again. Nothing is better than getting something for free…

Womankind no longer requires man.
Females can procreate without the aid of a man.
We are slowly wanking ourselves into a paradox…

and if you believe that, then you will probably looking for a partner right now!!

Masturbation is provided as a method to initiate the love making, not provide the total solution!
All animals need sex. Its the one thing that makes us human. That desire to feel loved and to love….