Do you have lust for your ex?
It has come to my attention that some of you actually lust after your ex. I mean, really. Didn’t you get hurt badly enough the first time around?
What’s that? Have I ever lusted after MY ex? Oh no, dearie no, I have never lusted after my ex. Hell, I didn’t lust much for him when we were together, but that’s a story for a different day.
The rule for today is put that relationship behind you. One of you has made it perfectly clear that what you had between you wasn’t working. You might still be friends or supportive of your children but face it, the RELATIONSHIP is over. Remember when the judge said so?
I have heard of a few instances where couples have resolved their issues and gotten back together but most of them have done so for the children or for economic reasons. Very few couples get back together because they truly love one another and if that’s not the case, why be together? You aren’t doing the kids any favors by living in a loveless, probably argumentative situation. If it’s economic, you can work out how you can both live independently. Move, get a different job, bring in a roommate (not your ex) — see where I’m going here?
It always comes down to the sex, doesn’t it? I can’t argue with you that ex sex is comfortable sex. You know what to expect, you know what buttons to push so you both get the big O and then go about your business. But in the end, it’s not that satisfying “I love you” kind of sex. The joy of life is to have the good kind of sex. The sex that ends with a cuddle and a sigh that makes you feel all tingly in the good bits and all the other bits.
So ditch the ex both emotionally and physically and find a relationship that’s good for you. You’ll know it when that person comes into your life. We’ll have to slap you silly to get the grin off your face.
You know, I had a first love that I have never forgotten. I loved him sooooooooo much. I still have all his letters. And I still talk to him from time to time. When I got married more than 20 years ago, I told my girlfriend that if my first love walked in the door, I’d be with him again in a second, no matter who I was married to. That marriage didn’t last, but many years and wisdom have banked my fires for that first love. I see that we would never be compatible as lovers again, but can be friends. Life is interesting, n’est-ce pas?
I used to not so much anymore it’s been 7 Long Years since we split I swore I would never Make Love to another Woman but if she doesn’t come back Begging for me than I’m afriad I’m gonna have to Move On with my Life*
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*** From SexyOldBroad - Awwww.. if I were only younger.. and single. drool (that’s just because I’m old that I drool.)