Does my ass look big in this?

ismyassbigHow many times do we women ask stupid questions like this? Does it matter? Your ass isn’t going to look smaller unless you’re wearing a loose, free flowing skirt, so why worry about it? We’re all going to wear pants and jeans and shorts because that’s what we feel comfortable in.

Should you ask your husband, partner or boyfriend this question? NO. Firstly because it’s a stupid way to get a compliment on your ass and secondly, if they know what’s good for them, they won’t say yes.

If you are desperately seeking a compliment or some confirmation that your sweetie still thinks you’re wonderful, why not come up with a much more clever way to get what you want. Ask for it.

“Honey, I got this outfit because I thought you’d like it, what do you think?” will work wonders. You have a good chance of getting a compliment on your choice but you also have a chance of finding out what he likes if he doesn’t like this one. It also gives you a chance to let him know that you like dressing in ways that are pleasing to you both.

2 Comments so far

  1. Mike's Blog Marketing Tips on November 17th, 2009

    “if they know what’s good for them, they won’t say yes.”

    Honesty is supposed to be the best policy, isn’t it?

    Or are you suggesting it’s better otherwise?

    Just an observation.

  2. sandy on November 18th, 2009

    Well said, and yes…her ass does look fat. Hip style jeans, or any of those inbetween ones (ones that don’t come to your waste, almost always make your ass look fat. The percentage of people who can wear that style and look good is small….no way less than small. Everyone looks better in pants, slacks, or jeans that fit at the waste.

    sandy

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