Energize your online dating

I’ve been examining online dating experience for years, it’s my business to know as much about it as I can. People ask me all the time why two very similar people can have totally different experiences and I have to admit that I’ve been baffled by that too. I used to think it was just that one was more friendly than the other but it’s more than that.

I was chatting with some people last week. One was a guy who visits chat every day, has lots of friends and can’t get a date. I really like him a lot but not as much as another guy who gets every woman he sets his sights on. It’s sat on my mind all week long. Why does one get better results than the other?

When checking their profiles and ads, I think I found a clue. While both profiles say pretty much the same thing, one comes across with tons of energy. I could feel it when I read the ad.

Distinguished (read that older, mature, pot bellied) gentleman seeks exciting (read that not dead from the neck down) woman to have some fun. If you enjoy dining out, evenings with friends, freezing your ass off trying to catch a fish that you probably won’t eat for dinner or lounging in a hot tub overlooking some exotic island, why not send me a note. Your looks are not as important as your ability to smile.

I’m a positive person who wants to have fun as often as I can. Feel the same way? Tickle me.

Attached to this ad was a photo of a man about 47, greying a bit, not in the best physical condition but he has a huge smile on his face. Every mail he sends out gets a reply.

So I decided to ask him why he thinks he’s so successful. He initially said he didn’t think he was but he said he knew we could tell how many emails he got so modesty wasn’t required. He said that when he wrote to a woman, he looked at her profile and while he was writing the email he projected what he was saying to her emotionally.

“The universe is all energy, we’re all energy, the computer runs on energy, so from the beginning, I have sent a little mental note with each mail I send. For lack of a better way to put it, I send a bit of positive energy her way.”

Whoa.. I wasn’t prepared for that.

The Power and Mystery of Energy

I have to admit that I’ve been interested in how the energy of the universe connects all things. Everything on earth vibrates. Music is vibration and it can often be quite powerful. So maybe this guy is on to something.

I began to research a bit more.

The Chinese have been involved in body energy for thousands of years. We in the West have consistently put it down as primitive practices and often because we think our Western medicine is superior. But is it?

The American Indians have known about body energy and how we as humans are connected to the Earth. Again, many consider this to be primitive but is it in fact a more advanced ability?

We’ve all been around people who give off a “vibe”. I know you know what I’m talking about because it’s either a good or bad feeling that we get in our gut but can’t verbalize. We just KNOW it exists. That’s the mystery of energy.

Psychics and others in that realm have known about the energy humans have. It’s no secret to any of them that this guy can send a non-verbal telepathic message to prospective dates, so why do the rest of us resist it? Our religious training and beliefs could be one way that causes resistance. Personally I believe in God but I look at all the things done in the world “In God’s Name” and it makes me want to spit. The God I honor and worship isn’t a hateful God.

If you look at what Jesus said in the New Testament with an eye to how He felt about energy and how we treat one another, it says a lot. He said we can move mountains just by wanting it to happen. That’s energy and vibration, baby.

So if you’re looking for a new relationship through online dating, think about the energy you’re passing along to a prospective new partner. There might be some room for improvement there. Take a page from the guy on our dating site who gets so much action. Use the energy you have at your fingertips.