Comments on: Does your size stop you from having great sex?

By: SexyOldBroad

SexyOldBroad — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 01:43:48 +0000

Rokhopa I couldn’t agree more. If there was more love in the world than criticism and condemnation, we’d all be happier and getting more sex.

By: Rokhopa

Rokhopa — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 12:29:25 +0000

I love people who automatically think THIN=HEALTHY. My very thin trim neighbor dropped dead from a heart attack, it was a huge surprise. Everyone thought he was so healthy.

Do not judge a book by its cover. I am over weight and except for a thyroid condition that I have been trying to manage for 15 years I am very healthy. Normal/low blood pressure, normal cholesterol the whole 9 yards. But because I will never be a size 6 or have flat abs I am unhealthy. I am active, strong and eat healthy I just wasn’t built to be a super model.

But I am sexy! Love the post! Why not coach an alcoholic or drug addict to be sexy in bed? You don’t think some one who is addicted needs to learn to love themselves? I would think learning to love oneself is a great step in the right direction to recovery.

By: SexyOldBroad

SexyOldBroad — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 03:17:35 +0000

Blindedbyblonde, I WOULD coach an alcoholic or a drug addict on how to be sexy in bed. I would never assume that because someone has issues that I don’t have that they shouldn’t be encouraged to enjoy sex.

Please don’t assume that someone overweight is not healthy because many are. Morbidly obese, maybe you have a point, but chubby is sexy to a lot of people.

I’m serious when I say that BBW dating is a fair segment of the SexyAds.com population. Not only that, but they don’t sit around waiting to be thin to enjoy sex.

By: blindedbyblonde

blindedbyblonde — Wed, 18 Mar 2009 01:56:04 +0000

Its not about image anymore, nor about being thin…its about being healthy. Being large and healthy is great. Being obese and making excuses for it, is not.

How can you love yourself enough to shag with the lights on when you don;t love yourself enough to be healthy.

Would you coach an alcoholic and a drug addict how to be sexy in bed?

By: YummY!

YummY! — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 01:04:00 +0000

My husband and I have GREAT sex, and I’m nearly 3 times his size. He says my ass is his favorite part of my body (its one of the biggest parts of my body) and he loves it when I’m on top. I long ago got over the fear that I was going to hurt him.

By: ikogsakanding

ikogsakanding — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 06:20:43 +0000

nice post…..

By: Dragon Blogger

Dragon Blogger — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:48:32 +0000

Good article, people should be comfortable with themselves, if they are unhappy with their weight they should set goals to achieve it. If they ARE happy with their weight, then they need to be with people who also are. Nobody should have to put up with negativity there is somebody for everybody.

By: Katherine

Katherine — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 08:29:57 +0000

Great post! I always used to be skinny – and I loved it. Then, about 2 years ago I began having some very odd symptoms – one of which was gaining 100 lbs in about 6 months. I couldn’t figure out what was going on – and after a lot of testing, we discovered I ahve Cushing’s Disease. (A tumor on my pituitary gland.)

I’ve been single ever since them – totally because of my size. I’ve hated the weight (and myself) since it adopted my body – even though it’s from an illness I have no control over. I thought my dating had come to an end – that I would never find anyone. Certainly anyone who would ever find me attractive.

Your post brought up some really good points – and I’m going to print it out as a reminder. It seems like you always come out with posts I need to hear – and I thank you for that.

By: Lilysgramma

Lilysgramma — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 07:25:06 +0000

Great post! I liked it so much that I wrote a post on the subject and linked back to yours Thanks for the inspiration!