Hand holding is so… yesterday

Holding handsSure, all women like public displays of affection. It shows all those other women out there how loved and cherished you are. You have to admit though, after a while the handholding doesn’t quite get the blood flowing like it did early on. Come on guys, it’s time to lift your game.

If you want to get her motor going so she’ll jump your bones the minute you get home, move on from hand holding and –

Place your hand on her neck
Caress her cheek with the back of your hand
Rest your hand on her hip
Put your arm around her shoulder

These are all non-verbal ways of not only telling her but showing the world how much she’s loved. Trust me, we all want the world to know. Even if we say we don’t for modesty’s sake, the truth is, we want everyone to know.

Step up the PDAs and it’s guaranteed to deepen her connection to you and strengthen your relationship. It’s also pretty much a sure thing that the more she feels loved, the more sex you two will share.

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  2. buffy on March 27th, 2008

    I must be old fashioned or something…but I’ll stick to hand holding. I’d hate for my husband to touch my face especially in public…unless of course I had leftover food stuck there. And I really don’t like the back of my neck touched at any time. I could however deal with the arm round the shoulder especially if its cold outside!

    I guess I’m just not into ‘public’ displays of affection or the need to prove to anyone he’s MY man.

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