Which is most important – the journey or the destination?
What’s more important in our quest for sexual intimacy – the journey or the destination? When we start dating someone, I know that lust kicks in pretty quickly and we can’t deny human nature. I think some people aren’t denying anything.
I was reading a few comments and ads yesterday on SexyAds.com and for some it appears that the destination is the only goal. Comments like, “snap one off” and “tear off a quick one” and “I can keep going every 10 minutes.” Whatever happened to dating to get to know someone? I can’t believe that we have evolved to a point where the journey to a satisfying relationship isn’t as important as a quick roll in the hay.
The destination or orgasm has never been as important to me as how I got there. I think that’s what intrigued me about the tantric sex stuff that I read about the other day. I find the longer I work up to it, the closer we become and the whole day seems to go well. LOL TMI? probably.
So what about you? is it the destination – that release of sexual tension or is it the journey to get there that’s most important to you?
To me it is the destination.Thanks for this article.
I guess for me it’s both..the journey affects how I get to my desired destination. If it was done how I wanted it to be done then I will arrive there satisfactorily!
I should read more about tantric sex. I prefer a lot of the journey… LOL… not necessarily the fore-you know what, but the inter-action! If you know what I mean.
Great post.
Hi! Mine was destination, i dont care how hard is the journey is
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