Does your size stop you from having great sex?
Way too many people allow the size of their bodies to dictate whether they feel comfortable having sex. This is SO wrong. If you’re even a teensy bit guilty of that, let me smack you hard. If you’re sticking to only missionary and doggy for your sexual satisfaction, it’s time you loved that body you walk around in and start getting kinky with it!
Before we get too far, to those people who think larger men and women aren’t sexy, get over yourself. People are sexy whatever their size. You might think really really skinny people are sexy and someone else might think a skinny person isn’t sexy at all. We’re all programmed from birth to desire something different. So if you’re bigger than your best friend, don’t buy into the media hype that size 2 is all that will do.
You CAN have great sex at any size!
Don’t let your size dictate your self worth, your confidence or your sexiness because no matter what size you are, we’re all worried about how our bodies look naked. Now I’m short and round and there’s no way I’d sign up for the TV show, “How To Look Good Naked,” but my man loves my body just the way it is. He likes how it responds when he touches it.
I read about an experiment done by Marie Claire magazine, where they took a picture of a size 14 model and had two mobile billboards made. One with the caption: “I think I’m sexy. Do you?” and the other: “I think I’m fat. Do you?” The result? That almost the same amount of people agreed with the statement that they were looking at. The results tend to confirm that people see you very much the way that you see yourself. If you believe that you are sexy, so will others.
So when my husband says I’m sexy, he’s not talking about the large boobs, although I suppose that doesn’t hurt, and he’s not talking about my laugh, or smile I don’t think. I think my state of mind comes through. I feel sexy, therefore he sees me as sexy. Now I know some of you will think, “holy cow.. she’s 61 and she thinks she’s sexy???” It’s true. You can be sexy at any size and at any age! Your perception of yourself is what counts.
On SexyAds there is a huge group of men who love dating BBW ’s and having sex with big beautiful women. There’s a huge group of women who like having sex with BHM ’s big handsome men. It’s not just small to average size people who can have great sex!
If you have a poor body image because of your size, I suggest that you stand in front of the mirror naked for about 30 minutes or until you can tell that person in the mirror that he or she is sexy. Love yourself because this isn’t a trial run. You don’t get to live your life and then do it again. Be sexy now. Try all those positions you’ve wondered about. Test out those new toys. Get it on!
