Sexy talk is probably the simplest and easiest way to take your lovemaking up several notches. It can range from very polite sayings like the prhase above to the other end of the spectrum which might make a hooker blush. Are there phrases that get YOU going when you hear them?

How about some of these ? Any of them hit a high note with you?

I love the way you kiss me…especially when you kiss me there!
I want to get naked with you right now.
Say my name when you do that!
I love you so much. Can you feel it?
Do you like the way that feels?
I love feeling your strong arms when you’re on top of me.
Use your mouth on me.
I love the things you do with your tongue.
You’re so damn gorgeous.
What’s that thing you do with your hand? I adore that!
Want to see what I really want? Come closer…
Strip for me, honey. Slow. I want to savor every inch of you.
Do you like the way that looks?
I’m going to control you tonight.
Use me as your toy.
Tell me what you want.
I’ll do anything for a lover like you…anything at all.
You’re the best lover I have ever had.
This is going to be the dirtiest night of your life.
Show me what you can do. I know you’re man enough!
You can have me any way you want.
Look, – handcuffs! You’re mine now
Don’t stop, harder!
You’re the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen.
It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
You know what I want. Give it to me.
I want you so bad – can you feel how much?
Just lie back and let me make you come.
You like that, don’t you? You like it when your woman does that to you?
Look how ready I am. Don’t you want to put your dick in there?
I adore how naughty you are.
You taste so good.
Come over here and ride me hard.
No one has ever made me come as hard as you can.
You make me so damn horny, baby!
I want to feel those sweet lips all over me.
Fuck me, honey. Right now.
I’m going to lick you and suck you until you come.
Want to make me scream? I’ll bet you can.
Get over here, big boy. Show me what you’re packing.
I love it when you nibble on my nipples.
Do that some more.
Your wish is my command.
Should I tie you up and make you take it, or are you going to be good?
Don’t you dare come until I say you can.
I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this.
Fuck me with your big, delicious dick.
How deep can you go? Let’s find out.
Lick every inch of me.
Only question is…where do you want to come?
How do you want me? On my knees? On my back? You choose.
Make me scream with that big dick of yours.
I’m going to suck you like a lollipop.
You give it to me better than anyone else ever could.
Do you like the way I fuck you, baby? Tell me.
Give me that big, fat baby-maker. You know what I want!
I’m going to do things to you that you’ve only fantasized about.
Give me that come, honey.
I want it in my mouth.
I want it all over me. Cover me with it.
Call me names. I love it when you call me your whore.
You can fuck harder than that. Give me everything you’ve got!
Make me scream like the naughty little slut I am.
Do you like it when I make you taste me?
I love sucking your rock-hard cock.
Tell me what you’re doing. I want to hear the words.
Touch yourself. Let me watch you.
Can you see what you’re doing to me?
Want a sex slave for the night? I’m yours!
Let’s see how many times I can make you come. Want to place bets?
Tell me your most secret fantasy.
Do you like knowing you’re the only one who fucks me?
How dirty can you get? How nasty are you?
Oh, yeah, baby…that’s how I like to see it.
Watch me touch myself. I love it when you watch.
I want you to come in my mouth.
Shoot it down my throat.
You want to feel me come? Touch me right there – right now!
Tell me when, baby. I’ll come with you.
How do I taste?
For the next hour, you’re my personal sex toy.
Pound me with that hard, fat cock!
Better be careful…if you don’t do what I tell you, I might stop.
What do you want tonight? The French Maid? The Hooker? The Schoolgirl?
Pretend you’re a porn star. Fuck me like one!
I bet you would like to do this in public. Admit it.
Think I can swallow your whole cock? Let’s find out.
I’m going to make you come until it hurts.
Play with my pussy.
Oh, God…that thing with your tongue. Do that again!
I love the way it sounds when you fuck me so hard. Hear it?
Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
You like it when I spread my legs and take you in?
Come on, badass – show me how big you really are!
You can have any hole you want. Which one will it be?
Do you want more? Take it!
Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.
Show me how a real man fucks.
Can you come again? I want some more.
I love getting dirty and naughty with you.

Not many men have the guts to tease their woman. Teasing your woman can be a lot of fun and a challenge but you should learn how to tease the right way.

You might do this but I received a note from someone who wished her lover would try it to help her get bigger orgasms. She writes that he goes for the goods (breasts and clitoris) and after a bit of fingering he’s ready to get the job done.

You might consider this request to be common sense, but he never does this for me. For me, sometimes it´s even better than the nipple sucking and fingering my clit. I want him to play “at the door” – give me partial penetration.

Before he rushes the finish line I want to to ramp up the teasing. I want to beg him to FUCK ME. Seriously, lack of doing this makes me resort to using a small vibrator to get me ready. I just don’t know how to explain that I want him to tease me with the tip of his penis. I get this huge sense of arousal and an aching for him to shove himself into me. Making me beg just heightens the orgasm when I finally get there.

I thought maybe you could write about this and ask other members for advice on how to get him to play with me instead of just fuck me.

As a woman I instantly knew what she was talking about and I agree it results in fantastic orgasms when a woman is teased til she wants to be fucked so badly she begs. So folks, what’s your advice? Mine would be that the inability to talk to her lover about sex and her needs IS the problem.

Do you get hotter when your lover talks dirty to you? Most people do. It’s naughty and it releases some of our inhibitions, especially for women. I know it’s tough to ask for dirty talk if you’re shy but seriously, nobody is going to think you’re weird if you let them know you secretly crave honest, dirty talk while you make love.

Dirty talk can also rev the engines before hand with a quiet whisper in your lover’s ear saying something like, “I want to bend you over the table and fuck you from behind and drive you crazy. The raw animal sounds you make drive me insane.” It’s a way of keeping the intimacy between you throughout the day.

If you’re asked to talk dirty and can’t think of anything to say, don’t sweat it, just say what’s in your mind. It’s better to be safe than sorry so maybe you start out by saying tamer things and with tamer language and slowly moving on to the naughtier talk.

Decide what voice you’ll use. Try whispering, try screaming, try everything possible to vent out your mood, doesn’t matter because we all have a dirty talk voice in there. Try it out and find yours.

“What if he bursts out laughing when I think I’m talking really dirty?”

So what? There is plenty of time for laughter while having sex too. It’s never about being right. You’ll never get sex right. You don’t want to get sex right because then you wouldn’t have to practice so often.

What are your best dirty talk lines?

Players, are all around, we’ve all seen them but too often it’s after we’ve fallen into the trap of no escape. How can you be sure you’re not fooled by someone who’s only in it for a game? Now I know that there are players on both sides and there are even some couples who are players. Before you all start yelling at me while I’m cleaning and not looking, we get more complaints from women about guys not being sincere than we do from men about women.

No nerves. Most people meeting for a first date tend to be a bit nervous or awkward but the player is always in control. He has an air of confidence, he’ll look you in the eye and he’ll give you a prize winning smile. Who wouldn’t swoon over that? You won’t because he’s not sincere. You’re a notch in his belt and once he knows you’ve fallen for him, he’s off to his next conquest.

Elaborate, romantic dates. With a player, it’s performance dating all the way. This guy knows what women will fall for, that’s why Internet scammers are so successful. The player will plan events that some people only dream about, but as soon as you’re hooked, he’s off to his next “love”.

Do you bungee jump? The player is always looking for thrills, always ripping the lid off his adrenaline jar. That’s why you’re so interesting at first. For him, it’s the thrill of the chase and once he’s reached the summit, your player will find you boring.

Online players. We’ve all heard about the guy who sweeps you off your feet through email or chat. He seems just perfect. Weeks go by and finally you say those 3 little words and tell him you would like to meet him. He tells you sure thing, he can’t wait to touch you, to hold you and more. The date comes and just before he’s to arrive, there’s a problem. He’s so sorry but he can’t make it, but it will be soon. Another date is set and another disappointment. You keep on waiting because he is so caring and romantic online, you can’t imagine that he’s just getting his kicks online and has no intention of meeting you. Is he married? Not all online players are married but many are.

Always stick with a nice guy. He might be a bit awkward at first but he’s friendly, caring and he remembers things you’ve said or important dates. He shows up when he says he will. He isn’t always interested in what will make him happy. A nice guy has friends and he can mingle in a group of people who are more or less accomplished than he is. He fits in wherever he goes. He’s not afraid to say I love you when it’s time and when it’s time he says it enough to make you feel terrific. Finally, a nice guy treats his momma right. In fact, most of the time he likes everyone in his family. A nice guy has been brought up to have a good set of values. You can trust a nice guy.