I’m not sure how big the group of women was that was surveyed to give their favorite fantasies, but I suspect they are very typical. I’ve seen quite a few of these mentioned in the SexyAds forums a time or two!

*Sex between student and teacher
* Sex in public or in a public place
* Sex with a multitude of partners
* Sex in a place where a person might be caught in the act
* Having sex with a famous person or fictional character
* Trying sexual positions or approaches a person may not be practicing in real life
* Wearing the clothing of the opposite sex or being forced to wear this clothing.
I love that my sexual fantasies are not the same as my sexual reality. I can fantasize about sex with any number of men without committing adultery in my heart. I can imagine myself with .. well, best leave that for another article, ok?

Most research on sexual fantasies points to the fact that a healthy sexual fantasy life goes hand in hand with a healthy overall sex life. People who have sexual fantasies are more likely to be sexually satisfied, and they even have more sex. So if you have fantasies, you’re on the right track!

Occasionally some people feel bad or guilty about having fantasies that don’t include their spouse. Hoo ha to that I say! The only time a fantasy can cause a problem is if your partner wants to act one out and it’s something that you don’t want to do. My advice is to say no. You’ll hate it and your partner will resent it so you won’t get any brownie points for “giving in.”

I think there’s nothing better than having a quiet cuddle and talking about fantasies. I ALWAYS get in the mood. How about sharing yours?

What inspires women to permanently remove all their pubic hair. The procedure is done using a laser to strip away every genital hair and is gaining in popularity every month. It’s called a “permanent Brazilian.”

The all-off trend has been common practice since the 1990s and is now broadly requested by women of all ages, but very few social science studies have been concerned with the practice. Why DO we want to take it all off permanently? Everyone wants to play around with it at least once and a lot of people wax it all off for months or years at a time – but what if you change your mind? What if it’s not so popular in 10 years or they find out that if you take all your hair off you lose brain cells at a faster rate?

Some people tell me that they feel sexier, feel cleaner and feel a heightened sense of their sexuality without pubic hair.

I guess I can understand why someone would shave it all off but something inside me nudges me to say I’d be unwilling to do anything that would turn me into a pre-pubescent woman permanently. There might come a time when I’d like to cover my hoo hoo with some fur.

From time to time everyone’s sex drive changes pace and when it seems to slow down, there are things we can do to give it a boost. I found these ideas on the net and I think they’re worth considering.

We all know that partnering with someone with a low sex drive can be frustrating, but there are a few things that you can try in order to make it better.

Build self-confidence: Improve your interest in sex by feeling good about yourself.
Rid yourself of stress: Stress will weaken your libido, as worry keeps your mind off of sex and on other things. Try relaxing with a warm bath or a good book.
Don’t get caught up in fights: Resolve problems with your partner so that they don’t lead to withdrawal in the bedroom.
Get your imagination going: Read a steamy novel or watch porn to get your mind’s eye thinking about sex.
Change your attitude about sex: Don’t think about sex as a chore. Rather, regard it as a fun, pleasurable activity with someone you love.

Take care of your body and get toned up so you’ll be more receptive to sex.

Be attractive: Even if you’re not naturally beautiful, there are a number of things you can do to make yourself feel more attractive. Whether that means a spa day or a new outfit, do whatever it takes to feel od about yourself.
Stretch: Stretching offers a low-impact way to improve your blood flow and relax.
Exercise: Work the muscles that you need for good sex, and you’ll both improve blood flow and feel good about yourself.
Get a massage: Massages can release the tension in your body and increase your blood flow, which is good for sexual arousal.
Try yoga: Certain yoga positions will help improve circulation to your sexual organs and increase desire.
Lose weight: Excessive weight can have an effect on your self-esteem and make you feel less attractive. It’s also possible that being overweight can interfere with blood flow to your sexual organs, so shed a few pounds to help your libido.

Your libido is affected by everything that you do.

Quit smoking: Smoking has an adverse effect on blood flow, as it causes a narrowing of blood vessels, including those in sexual organs. Additionally, smoking steals your energy and gives you bad breath.
Smell good: Your sense of smell can boost your libido. Some scents in particular, like buttered popcorn and baby powder, have been found to turn men and women on.
Get a good night’s rest: If you’re tired, chances are you’re not going to be in the mood. So sleep well at night and rest up for good health and good sex.
Drink in moderation: Alcohol may increase desire initially, but can lead to impotence and general unattractiveness if you go too far.
Touch each other constantly: Touching your partner, whether it’s sexual or not, can help arouse sexual feelings. This can be as simple as holding hands or hugging on a regular basis.

Food Beyond daily habits, the things you eat can have an effect on your libido. Check out these foods to improve your desire for sex.

Try aphrodisiacs: Some foods are just great for getting you in the mood. They might work for you.
Avoid simple carbs: Carbohydrate dishes are likely to have you heading to bed for sleep instead of sex, so avoid pasta, pizza and other snooze-inducing meals.
Eat protein: Protein will give you an energy boost that will have you feeling good and ready for sex.
Eat fish: Fish is not only high in protein, it has Omega-3 fatty acids as well, and these acids are wonderful for improving your circulation and sexual health.
Cut down on saturated fat: Men should be careful to avoid eating too much saturated fat, as it can clog arteries and block adequate flow to your penis. One doctor says that a good guideline to keep in mind is, “anything that’s good for your heart is good for your penis.”

If you’ve tried it all, check with your doctor. Don’t be shy about it!

Look into your hormones: Speak with your doctor about your low libido. Sometimes, the problem lies in a hormone imbalance.
Consider quitting antidepressants: Many antidepressant medications can have a negative effect on your sex drive, so discuss discontinuation of your prescription or consider alternatives.
Keep diabetes in check: Uncontrolled diabetes can be responsible for sexual evils like erectile dysfunction and decreased sexual response, so be sure to take care of it.
Look into adrenal fatigue: Your failing libido could be brought on by a condition called adrenal fatigue. Speak with your doctor to see if you have this condition.

Natural remedies might help.

Gingko biloba: This remedy has been shown to improve blood flow to both your brain and sexual organs. It’s also believed to offer an improvement on desire, arousal, and orgasm.
Yohimbe: This “natural Viagra” has been used in Africa as an aphrodisiac for many years. It’s believed to improve male impotence.

Every man is different and each one has slightly different likes, dislikes and sensitivities, so communication between you is very important, especially if this is a new relationship. As you continue in the relationship you’ll learn his body and how it will tell you what’s pleasurable. Never be afraid to ask a man what turns him on. I’ve found they are most eager to tell us!

-Start with his erogenous zones.

-Lick and kiss behind his ears, the sound of your breath and your soft moaning will drive him crazy.

-Kiss his lips. Most men can get aroused simply by an erotic, lingering kiss on the lips.

-Pay attention to his neck but DON’T give him a hickie – that was only fun in high school – cover his neck with tender kisses.

-Try a scalp and head massage. Why? It feels good and he’ll feel important while you’re taking the time to make him feel special.

-Most men love their chests, especially if they are fit. Caress his chest and kiss and suck his nipples. Start slowly so it stays enjoyable.

-Not many men touch their inner thighs during the day so anything you do in this area will feel really good whether it’s touching, licking, nibbling or kissing.

-When you think you’ve got him right where you want him, go for his most sensitive part – the glans head of his penis. If he’s got a foreskin, handle that gently !

-While you’re in the area, the area between his scrotum and his anus has tons of nerve endings and is very pleasurable when you fondle there. A bit of lubricant or massage oil works well and so does saliva. Don’t be too rough unless it’s just before orgasm, then he will come more intensely.

-His anus has a lot of nerve endings surrounding it and it’s very sensitive sexually.

-Finally, he’ll love it when you fondle his testicles while you perform fellatio on him. Prop his head and shoulders up on pillows so he can watch you. Men love to watch!