What professions do you consider are the sexiest? Recently a survey asked people to list the sexiest professions and here are the top 10.

Model
I suspect this is a no-brainer. I can’t imagine anyone turning down someone good looking enough to walk down a fashion runway.
Cocktail Waitress
Seriously? That’s #2 ? Have you ever waited tables in a bar? I can’t imagine a harder job. I suppose you DO meet a lot of new people.
Athlete
It would have to be a nationally known athlete if you’re out of high school or college I think.
Firefighter
Ok, now we’re getting into the uniform people and uniforms always seem to catch peoples’ attention.
Cowboy (Cowgirl?)
I guess this could be seen as sexy – riding horseflesh between your legs all day would certainly keep you in the mood.
Doctor or Nurse
Who doesn’t have a doctor or nurse / patient fantasy? Folks in the caring professions are easy to talk to and they take an interest in what we say.
Artist
Don’t we all wish we could be an artist’s muse? Artists are passionate people and they’re often puzzling to sort out. Plus, you can get free art.
Military Personnel
Again we have the uniform. These are people who are giving up their own safety and security to protect ours and our appreciation and gratitude often gets amorous.
Construction Worker
Isn’t there something sexy about a man wielding a hammer? I’m not a man so I don’t know if a man would feel the same way about seeing a woman sawing a piece of wood. Maybe. We have respect for those who can build or repair things. I can’t. (let’s not talk about plumbers or their butts, okay?)
TV/Movie Star
Let’s not include Larry King or Glenn Beck but the rest of the folks in the movies or on TV would get quite a few people to say okay to letting them park their sneakers under their beds. Jon Stewart was named one of the sexiest men on TV so obviously women think smarts are sexy. Good to have a great sense of humor too.

One thing I notice right away from these results are all these people are passionate about their work and would have to enjoy it to stick with it. Maybe that’s what we find so appealing about them. Maybe that passion makes us consider them sexy.

Ladies, here are some tips on taking care of the girls who take such good care of your man.

When you’re going out in the sun, cover them with sunscreen no less than SPF 15. You don’t want wrinkly boobs, sunspotted boobs or dare I say it, skin cancer.

Don’t shave any stray nipple hair. (nipple hair you say? yes, some women do have nipple hair) You can end up with an infected follicle so plucking is the preferred, although more painful, method to remove the hair.

Toss the old bras. An old bra has probably lost much of its elasticity and that can lead to neck or back pain even if you’re moderately endowed. If you’re bigger than that, fresh bras are a must.

Breast self exams! At least once a month when you’re in the shower, soap them up and feel around from your armpit to your nipple. If you feel anything that seems suspicious ask your doctor. He or she will be glad you did, even if there’s nothing to worry about.

Say along with me, ladies, we must, we must, we must take care of our busts! Paying attention to our breasts is a good thing.

A few years ago (yes I’ve been writing these posts for years!) I wrote something about stretch marks on women that got quite a few positive comments from men. I received an email from a woman this week who’s just dipping her big toe back into the dating pool after her lengthy marriage broke up. Normally the concerns a woman has are will she be interesting enough to keep a man’s attention, will he find her attractive, will she have anything to say that’s worth listening to, etc. This woman is worried about her stretch marks and how big a turnoff they’ll be when she finds someone she’d like to have sex with.

Many of you won’t understand this but if you read the article I wrote before – I understand! I’m a very short person — barely 5′ tall — and my first baby weighed in at 13 pounds. Not much space for a kid that big between the boobs and the business end. I know stretch marks. I also know what it’s like to move on to a new relationship later on in life. When it comes down to the sex bit, the marks won’t matter. Nobody is going to make love to your stretch marks. Sure, I wish they weren’t there but wishing won’t change a thing.

There are men who have gained a lot of weight or bulked up with exercise who have stretch marks too – I don’t think one of them are concerned that a woman would find them unattractive.

Everyone has something they wish was different and stretch marks are just one of them. If a man wants to make love to a woman, when she’s naked he’s never going to say, “OMG, why didn’t you tell me you had stretch marks or I wouldn’t have bothered?” Honey, that’s not the bit he’s interested in.

From the TV show of the same name come these really good tips. I think no matter what size a woman is, there are always bits she wished were bigger, smaller or shaped differently.

Stage 1: Face Your Fears
Take your clothes off in front of a mirror and have a long hard look at yourself
For many of our ladies, taking their clothes off in front of anyone had became a massive ordeal. Stripping off in front of a mirror and taking a good hard look at yourself in the first step to facing your fears and building up your confidence.

Stage 2: Change Your Self-Perception
You’re not as big as you think you are
The media bombard us all with unrealistic airbrushed images of women every day. The magazine images of surgically enhanced women aren’t very realistic but these images portray women as beautiful and successful so it’s hard for ordinary women not to want to be and look like them. However, most normal women look well, normal but those photos can make us feel negatively about our bodies and encourage our low self esteem.

So, the second stage of looking good naked is to start waking up to the way the media works and stop comparing these images to the way you look. Wake up to the fact that you actually look pretty OK, that you aren’t as big as you think you are AND look at all the women around you — I bet most of them are the same as you.

Stage 3: See Yourself As Others See You
Learn to take compliments and focus on the positive rather than the negative
The third stage is to start focusing on the positive rather than the negative aspects of your body. Do not dismiss compliments. Hold on to all the nice things people say and ignore anything negative that might come your way.

Stage 4: Work Your Body
Wear clothes that make you look and feel good
Your clothes can have a big impact on the way you feel about yourself. Wearing clothes that flatter your shape and emphasize the best bits of your body is the best way to feel and look good. Underwear is also key. Old grey underwear can only make you feel old and grey. Structured underwear will give you more shape with your clothes on. Sexy underwear will give you a boost when your clothes have to come off.

Stage 5: Respect Yourself
Look after yourself
Your lifestyle does matter and it does effect the way your look and feel about yourself. A good healthy lifestyle will pay dividends. You will feel better but the pay off is that you will look better too.

Stage 6: Beauty Cheats
Looking good naked
What ever your size and shape feeling confident is key to looking good — whether your clothes are on or off. So now you are feeling on top of the world it’s time to start taking advantage of all the beauty treatments and products out there. Follow these rules on a weekly basis and we guarantee you will look good in the buff: