When you’re driving home after work, do you lust for the one you’re with? You should.

I see many married or attached people coming to sites like ours and I have to wonder what happened to the lusty feelings that these two people once had. Why did they allow it to die?

Good sex doesn’t have to be complicated. In the beginning of most relationships couples may stay in bed for hours at a time talking, laughing, having sex, kissing, talking, having sex again, daydreaming, making out and maybe even having more sex. Desire, arousal, and passion – well, they’re seemingly effortless. No complications, couples just enjoy erotic fun and intimacy. So why can’t we keep it like that?

The old saying familiarity breeds contempt could come into play in some relationships. We forget why we fell for our partner in the first place. Can we get that feeling back after being hurt or angered? I don’t know. I do believe that we can get past most unpleasant bits in our relationship because underneath it all is a deep love and respect for one another.

I think it’s really easy to take our partner/spouse for granted. I think we all do it from time to time. Some way more so than others, I might add. Most of us live predictable lives and surround ourselves with familiar people, objects and places. In the beginning it was all new and exciting. Nothing predictable happened because there were so many things to discover about your partner. We stayed in an excited state of mind. We need to keep in mind the value of exciting, pleasurable sex.

It is important to realize that every single day you make a choice about your relationship. Every day that you stay with your partner you “re-choose” them whether consciously or unconsciously – but you do it. Perhaps it’s only to say, “I’ll give it 3 more months,” but it’s a choice none the less. If you think about going home and you feel no lust whatsoever for the person who’s waiting for you to arrive, it’s time to do something about it. Don’t let life slip through your fingers while you wait for things to get better. You can’t change people, you can only change yourself and that changes everything.

My mind keeps thinking about a very good friend of mine who’s gearing up to tell her parents today that her relationship is over. They’ve been together for as long as most people can remember but to most people around her, including her parents, it’s going to be a surprise. I often wonder why we keep the illusion that our relationships are wonderful when they really aren’t?

I also wonder about when we decide that we’re finally going to do something about our unhappiness that it takes “telling the family” before it’s really going to happen? I know in my previous life that once I told my family that I’d been miserable for years with a controlling son of a bitch for a husband that I truly knew I could go through it.

We’re hoping for our friend’s sake that her parents are supportive and will help her start a whole new life. She’ll have a whole new set of friends and she’ll begin to laugh – a lot. The house will be peaceful and friendly.

I’ve suggested that she look forward instead of back and not to worry so much about how he’ll cope but to focus on creating the life she wants.

If you’ve started over, do you have any suggestions for my friend?

If you ask me, I say share it! In this day and age, sex sharing sex stories is no longer taboo! There might be people who might disagree but in my opinion, if you have sex stories to tell, do share them!

Men and women are by nature very sexual beings. Being sexual is one of those very primordial things that we were born with. It’s not something that we should be ashamed of! As part of their sexual, they have every right to share their sexual stories.

Since the rise of the digital world, people can now find it very easy to share themselves and their stories with other people! They can shre their sex stories online! In the Internet age, anything and everything can be shared! One of the things that people can share with their fellow adults are their sex stories!

People,with their unique personalities and stories all have different stories to tell. One of the perks of sharing their different stories online ( whether they are stories of their sexual experiences or not) is that a lot of people can read it! People can read and learn something from your posts! Now consider this as you doing something good to people you don’t even know.

There might be some people who have exciting sexual stories to tell but are quite worried that they might be doing something wrong. Having apprehensions is a very normal thing but this shouldn’t stop people from sharing their stories. If you have something to say or share, you shouldn’t let people’s opinions bother you. If you feel like telling or sharing your exciting sex stories, then you better do so or you just might end up regretting it.

If you want to share your sex stories but you aren’t too sure with what to do, you can either blog it or share it in forums that are all over the Internet. I’m pretty sure that in time, you will get the hang of it. You might have apprehensions at the beginning but I’m sure that you will find it quite fun and entertaining to share your stories to the world! So what are you waiting for? If you have sex stories to tell, do tell them now or forever hold your peace in pieces!