Sex is all about pleasure
Sex is about pleasure, so stop worrying about reaching the goal posts and enjoy the journey. You’d watch a football game even if your favorite team doesn’t score, right? It’s the same thing. Leave your ego outside the bedroom door and start getting the pleasure about of enjoying each other’s bodies.
The first thing to do is to talk about what turns each of you on. Remember that what each of you says is not about hurting anyone’s feelings. The more sexual information you can take on board about your partner, the better lover you will be.
Plan a time when you can light candles, slowly undress each other, cuddle and share things that turn you on. Let your partner know it matters what they like because you want them to feel good. Don’t forget that it’s all about the journey and this will put you both at ease.
Many women have inhibitions about their bodies and that can affect how they respond sexually. All women want to feel sexy and desired, so tell her how excited she gets you, and compliment her best features. If your lover is self-conscious she’s not going to really get into the moment. Once she knows how beautiful you think she is or how she smells or tastes, she’ll begin to relax. This can’t be a one-off occurence though — she’ll be checking next time to see if you still feel the same way.
While we’re on the subject of women, if you make a point of telling her she’s desirable at other times than in bed, she’ll be looking forward to that next sexual encounter with you.
Totally agree with u! Pokeing is about pleasure! Plus sexerise for me! Have a happy new year!
I agree. In addition, what constitute sex organ, and how many pleasure points. The sexual journey can even begin toward the climax.