What’s sexy to a woman?
Of course we’re not all the same. Every woman is a little bit different in what she finds sexy but in many ways we’re very much alike. To most of us the word sexy is a feeling more than a look.
For instance, I have never thought of myself as sexy. When my man wants me.. I mean really wants me, I feel sexy. His words turn me on. For me, it’s rarely about how he looks that brings up the word sexy, it’s all about how I feel about me when I’m with him.
You might be thinking, “yeah, that’s you but what’s sexy to other women?”
I think you’ll find that what’s sexy to me as a woman is sexy to other women too. What’s the genre of book that’s sold more copies than any other to women? Romance novels. Why? Because they’re words and women put themselves into the stories where men make the women FEEL sexy.
In these books men compliment the women, they tell the women they’re wanted. You won’t find a romance novel where a man walks up to a strange woman, flops his dick on the table and tells her that he has a tongue that can lick her all night long.
Why? Because women wouldn’t buy the book. Yet time after time I see men writing that crap in their personal ads day after day. It just doesn’t work. Ok, I lied. It might work one time in 2000 times but why go with such horrible odds?
The books that women buy have words that describe situations that make women feel sexy. The man treats her with respect, he listens to her, he accepts her as his equal.
When women list the qualities they’re looking for in a man, you’ll usually find sexy in the top 10 requirements. A woman knows within minutes whether she feels sexy when she’s with a man. No amount of fancy clothes, wonderful scent or a fancy car can make up for how she feels about herself when she’s with you.
So I’m telling you, if you want a woman to find you sexy, it’s rarely going to be about how you look, the quickness of your tongue, how long you can last in bed or the size of your dick. It’s about how she feels about herself when she’s with you. If she feels sexy, she’s going to go to bed with you. Whether this is a new date or whether this is a woman you’ve been with for 40 years. When she feels sexy in your presence, nature sends the signals to make her want you.
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Great Post! I’m an “older 50’s” Diva Mama and ya know what . . . . the older I get, the sexier if feel?? Go figure??!!
Loved your article. I had never thought of it this way, however, right you are.
This was a great way to explain why the floppy dick ads don’t work. I hope some of them hear you. My date from the last post/ comment was a floppy dick.
Wow…
I am single but yes, knowlegable post. Thanks !
wow! that was a great post.
I am definitely in the camp of women that agree with you. No matter what my guy wears, how he looks or smells – what I wear or how I look – its how he makes me feel that carries me away.
How about what is sexy to a man. To a man what is sexy is a woman who is comfortable in her own skin no matter what shape or size or color. Self confidence is always sexy to me.
According to your last sentence : is this what makes women likes to be tease?
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