Will he cheat again?

I got an email today from a woman who told me that her partner that she’d been with for nearly 2 1/2 years was under a lot of pressure at work and got drunk and had sex with a co-worker. Not only that, but he continued to see her until his partner caught them together. She said he broke down and cried like a baby and apologized and said he would never see the woman again if only he could be forgiven.

Will he cheat again?

I suspect the guy cried because he got caught and all the excitement from a clandestine relationship was flying out the window. If all it took was a bit of stress and some alcohol to trigger this episode, then sadly, I have to say what’s past is prologue and he’ll cheat again when the conditions are right.

Does every cheater cheat again and again?

No, it’s not 100% certain that it will happen again and only you can answer the question of whether you give him (or her) another chance. If it happened to me and I really loved him, I’d give him another chance. I know it’s risking putting my heart on the table and waiting for the knife to stab a big fat hole into it, but that’s the sort of person I am. If I got cheated on twice, I’d take the knife and chase him until I cut his nuts off to go on my keychain.